Our prayers and thoughts goes out to the families who's currently suffering this traumatic situation and may those who lost their lives rest in peace. Sometimes, things like this shouldn't have happened, but if it did, there must have been a reason as well. There were some people who intended to go that night; however, made their last minute decision to not attend, in times like this, it's because they were meant to NOT be there.
No one knows what brings tomorrow, I stand by what I say to my family all the time..."forgive, forget, love and live on"... It doesn't matter what wordings comes first, so as long as all of these words are used daily.